Designing a website : your thoughts required

hi - need your feedback please.

I am in the process of having a website designed. I am very excited about it.

There is a lot to consider though on top of colours and fonts - like functionality and gidgets and gadgets and all of those other words that confuse me

What is your favourite blog / site - in terms of design and functionality?

The prettiest with most useful navigation tools etc?

What appeals to you in website design?

What do you find attractive in a site?

What elements are important?

What elements are annoying?
I'd really appreciate any feedback and would love links to great designs.

Thanks in anticipation

On a more personal note is there any advice / suggestions you could give me on what you would like to see from my blog? More pics from the outback etc , competitions, networking?

Really appreciate any feedback.